Some things are better left unsaid...

Had to stop facebook-ing to get my screen here to say something that i wanted to say previously but ALMOST FORGOTTEN. Anyway here it is:

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Letting go.

Heard of that?

I do know many who cannot accomplish that.

Simple to those who care less, tough for those who really care.

Time moves on, not slowing, not stopping.

So what if you're President? King? Lord of the World?

You can't stop time.

You can't change what has happen.

We're talking reality here.

All religion matters aside.

When you have to move on, you move on.

Lingering and moping over spilt milk changes nothing.

It's over. The choice to stay or move on.

There's no heartless, cold-blooded matters discussed here. It's bloody reality unless you're too blinded to see.

What has past cannot be changed.

What can be changed is the future. The damn future.

Learning is one. Waiting is another.

Choosing to be trapped in the mistakes or stories of the past is not to be mistaken with learning.

Choosing to move on is not cowardly, neither stupid. It's the bravest thing anyone can do.

Especially when that thing mattered most.

If you had done your part in ensuring joy and happiness, why cry when someone has passed on?

Everyone leaves this world someday, we don't know who, we don't know when.

So cherish all you have.

Don't wait till you're on your deathbed then start regretting this and that.

Like it helps?

Mourning isn't the act of a brave one.

If you only cry when someone else has moved on, that means you didn't cherish his presence very much in the first place.

It's useless. It's pointless.

Crying the loudest at one's moving on doesn't mean you're the most emotional, most supreme, most heart.

Accepting the fact that he has moved on and LEARNING to CHERISH what remains is so much more important than weeping.

So what if you were sad over someone moving on?

Being sad doesn't guarantee someone else won't move on.

Wake up people.

It's not heartless.

It's pure bravery to be able to move on.

That's inner strength for you.